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Finding Happiness 27: Experiment with Inner Peace

November 5, 2010

There’s nothing like experimentation to test out a theory. and here’s a theory you might be interested in: “By watching your thoughts during potentially upsetting situations, you will be minimally affected by those situations.” Of course for this experiment, like most others, you will need a lab; but the good news is that you do [...]

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Find Happiness 26: Don’t Keep Your Thoughts on a Leash

October 20, 2010

Many people feel they have to control their thoughts. Heck, so did I. But in reality, there is no reason to regulate them. Read on to understand why. I went to a puritanical school. When I was in the sixth or seventh grade, the school sternly taught my fellow pupils and me that thoughts were [...]

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Find Happiness 25: Be Aware of Every Single Thought, Even the Desire to Be Aware

September 30, 2010

As many enlightened beings have repeatedly stated over millennia, to experience absolute peace of mind you have to watch all your thoughts as a witness, just like you would watch a movie from the audience. That includes the thought, “I should watch all my thoughts like a witness.” Indian philosophy presents an interesting, time-honored analogy [...]

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Find Happiness 24: Weight Loss the Inner Peace Way

September 9, 2010

The first place to lose weight is your head. No, I’m not asking you to have a haircut or lobotomy. I’m asking you to take your heavy mind off yourself and lay it alongside. I’m asking you to realize that “you” are separate from your mind. Strange but very, very true! You need to realize [...]

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Find Happiness 23: Wealth Is Important, but Should It Be Your Main Focus?

August 26, 2010

Sure, wealth is necessary to live. What is the point of going through life without worldly comforts and living in consequent pain, misery or deprivation? All these make life unhappy. Would you rather spend your life unhappily or happily? I bet I know your answer. But should the pursuit of wealth be your be-all and [...]

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Find Happiness 22: “Good Thoughts” and “Bad Thoughts”: Baloney!

August 1, 2010

Earlier in my life, I used to waste an inordinate amount of mental energy dealing with what I felt were “bad thoughts” (i.e. thoughts which I felt were “wrong” for me to think). If a “bad thought” happened to pass through my head, I would immediately attempt to get rid of it (to no avail, [...]

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Just Who Do You Think You Are?

July 11, 2010

Most people constantly identify with a “persona” instead of their true selves… and are not even aware that they are doing so. Are you one of them?  I hope not… What exactly is this "persona"? The “persona” in this case is how you define “yourself”. Examples are: “I am the sibling/spouse/child of so-and-so.” “I am [...]

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Find Happiness 21: How to Make Being Happy a Habit

May 20, 2010

Being happy all the time is very much a matter of habit. If you don’t have the habit, it is easy to create it. Let us first define “being happy”. You are unhappy, generally speaking, when you do not have something that you wished you had. Want-related thoughts make you restless and dissatisfied. But suppose [...]

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Find Happiness 20: Inner Peace and Letting Go

April 25, 2010

Here’s a wonderful analogy relating to the gradual process of merging your individuality into the Universe. It also illustrates the courage needed to get the job done. (from http://www.peterrussell.com, reprinted with permission) ******************* The Parable of the Rope We are like a person holding on to a piece of rope. He holds on for dear [...]

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Find Happiness 19: Meditation: Are you Botching it Up?

April 13, 2010

Meditation, as popularly conceived, is similar to prayer in a lot of respects. It entails closing your eyes, being in a special location, and performing it during a portion of the day. If you are talking about deep meditation (aka soul-searching), then all those descriptors are appropriate. But should the rest of your day be [...]

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