Where Am I Coming From?

Many decades ago, I was,  like many others, very confused and unhappy. This was an unbearable condition and I decided to fix it.

I researched and tried several strategies to make myself happy. The turning point was my meeting a Living Master, who showed me the unshakeable inner peace already in me.

I hope that the articles here will show you where to find that inner peace and enable you to be a happy person. I'm always available to help out if need be

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I have have personally authored (and continue to author) articles themed around subjects such as finding happiness, finding inner peace, dealing with anxiety, managing anger and remedying low self-esteem. All the articles are on this website, and a link to them is at the bottom of the following sample article.

Honestly speaking, by studying all the articles and getting my gist, you should be able to transform yourself into a happy,  peaceful person... the only other action necessary would be to ask me any questions that arise (use the Comments section for this, or the Contact page).

Here is a sample article:


Find Happiness 62: How to Make an Unhappy Life Happy


If you think your life is lousy, believe one thing first: you can make your life a pleasure to live. It just calls for a change in mindset, which takes a bit of mental work until the job’s done. Let’s dive right into the subject…

You probably think you life is miserable because nothing is going well with you.

Do you know how you reached the “nothing is going well with you” opinion? By judging the key events of your life, deciding that each one had a bad outcome and then averaging all those decisions.

If you had judged each event and decided each time that the outcome was positive (i.e., “good”), your overall opinion would be that “life is going well.”

So how do you ensure that the outcome of each event is good? By looking at the outcome from a positive angle instead of from the negative angle which you currently use.

To use a famous illustration, you look at a half glass of water and say it’s half-empty; a positive, happy person would say it’s half-full.

Believe it or not, there is something positive in almost every event outcome. Here are some examples of how to look at things positively. You can of course dismiss them as unrealistic on some pretext or the other; that’s understandable, since you have a negative mindset to start with!

Event: You have a flat tire   Positive view: You get exercise by changing the flat

Event: You run out of bread   Positive view: You have a chance to broaden your palette by trying other foods

Event: You have a bad relationship with your spouse   Positive view: You have an opportunity to overhaul your personality

For you to change your interpretation of events as described above, you have to foster a particularly important, life-altering belief: EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR THE GOOD. And for that to happen, you need to believe that the Universe (or God, if you’re more comfortable with that) has a good purpose in mind.

Believing (“knowing” would be more accurate) that everything happens for the good can help you out when you cannot immediately think of how an outcome can be positive: you merely decide that although you do not know how the outcome could have a positive side to it (someone getting involved in a car accident, for instance), there is a positive side and you might become aware of it later (this has happened to me several times).

So to summarize what you need to do to turn your lousy life into a good one,

  1. Believe that you can make your life happy
  2. Believe that the Universe has a good purpose for everything
  3. Therefore believe that everything happens for the good
  4. Look for that good (i.e., something positive) in the outcome of each of life’s events

As a result, when you feel that all the events of your life have turned out well, your opinion of your overall life will be that… it’s good!


If the above article made you curious and you want to read more, you can access the complete collection of articles.


Email Coaching

In most cases, the realization of inner peace requires a teacher to answer questions over an extended period of time. It is no different from being taught classical music or a second language: there are methods to learn and it is necessary for you to practice what you have learned.

Also, in the early stages, there could be a need for answers to be provided on a timely and frequent basis (ask me, I’ve been there).

It is for these reasons that I offer personalized coaching by email.

Under this arrangement:

  • I will send you instructions as warranted by your existing level of inner peace
  • You can email me up to five questions per week (where a week is from Monday to Friday)
  • I will answer those five questions within the week (provided I can view them within my working hours)

The cost of this service is USD 97 per month (you can discontinue at any time to stop billing). Make payment using any major credit card, debit card or PayPal by clicking the button below:

Purchasing this coaching will mean your automatic agreement to the Terms and Conditions stated lower down

Terms and Conditions: (1) No part of the coaching program is a substitute for professional advice. All content provided in connection with the coaching program is for informational purposes only. (2) Lucky Balaraman gives no guarantee about the effectiveness of the coaching, which depends on, among other things, your effort, intelligence and mental acuity. (3) You assume any and all risks associated with your enrollment in the coaching program. (4) All content provided in connection with the coaching program is the property of Lucky Balaraman and cannot be reproduced without his written permission.

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I have been often lauded as an excellent teacher, and am confident that my coaching will make a huge difference to you.

To your peaceful life,